This weekend my wife and I were visiting relatives in upstate NY and we stopped by the cemetery to visit the grave of her favorite uncle who was killed in a traffic accident in November of 2005. While we were there my wife got an intense feeling that made her uncomfortable, to the point where she had to leave. Later on the drive home she told me that she strongly felt that her uncle was still earthbound. His death was literally instantaneous, and my wife felt that he was angry and upset that he was dead as he didn't want to go yet. This is a new experience for both of us as she's never received such intense sensations before. We are back now in New Jersey and don't know when we will be able to travel up there again, but we both agreed that we want to help him cross over. Is there anything we can do for him from far away such as prayer or trying to connect with him, or would it be better to try when we travel back up there. Any advice is appreciated.